The art of socialising

 At some conversation I cannot just stop speaking is it because of person or the content we speak about ?  Definitely it all depends on the person with whom we are conversing to. If it was our friend we might engage ourself for even a day but it is not same for our neighbours or someone else . From my observation ability to start a conversation is underrated . But this kind of small or big talk is a tricky business. There are situation where one has to go through a awkward pause just because there is noting left to be done we just end up staring each other's ,  but what if this situation pertains ones social circles to  never develop so will the individual . 

I always love to begin a conversation with my neighbours ,relatives I never stop making efforts to begin  the conversation or keep the listener engaged it is not something  that I insisted upon changing in my attitude . Because I was not like thins before a couple years or so ,some kind of energy changed me completely . We might never need a external force to change us the energy within us can always bring the best out of us Is what is belive . And yes it has created an effect in my life so now i am not super confident but little less scared to speak to a stranger or a new aquintainces

And now for socialising some of the key elements to keep in mind while bring up a conversation is to nod during the conversation , eye contact , smile when required  and most importantly try to be supportive .